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3 Tips for Staying on Track with Your Fitness

January 21, 2015 by Jen Sinkler 10 Comments

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Raise your hand if you made a New Year’s resolution this year.

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Keep it up if that resolution had something to do with going to the gym.

I would high-five that hand, if I could. You are awesome, and I hope you’re still rockin’ it.

Many of us start out the year amped and ready to make it the best one yet. We’ve got a list of all the things we’re gonna do: Go to the gym at least three times a week. Maybe even four or five! Cook healthy meals at home. Watch less TV and read more books. Meditate for 30 minutes every day. Spend time with family. Have a social life. All while balancing work, kids, partners, and friends. Basically, we’re trying to be superheroes. Should be fine, right?

You know where this is heading. According to The Wall Street Journal, the third week in January — as in, riiiiigghht about now — is where it starts to come apart, for many.

Stay on track this year with your workoutsFeatured image photo credit: Jalbus Photo

When life gets stressful and schedules get busy, oftentimes the first thing to get chucked is exercise. Exercise, after all, too often falls into the category of “should do,” and “should do’s” aren’t all that fun because they feel like obligations. So, ditch the shoulds and ask yourself this instead: what do you want to do?

It’s a small mindset shift that can have massive repercussions, because how much easier is it to stick with something you actually like doing? Contrary to what most fitness marketing will tell you, effective routines come in many forms; you don’t have to do any one thing, you just have to do anything, often.

Consistency is the key to seeing results. Results then lead to confidence and feelings of self-efficacy. Confidence leads to a willingness to try new things. Trying new things leads to more variety, and variety keeps your brain engaged. All this leads back to the very beginning: you doing activities you like and enjoy. Every one of these variables is connected.

So how do you make fitness a fun, engaging experience? Here are three tips to get you started:

1. Find a Gym That Feels Like Your “Third Place.”

In his book The Great Good Place, author Ray Oldenburg describes our time as being divided between three places. The first: your home. The second: your workplace. The third: your communal place. That’s where everyone knows your name and if you’re gone, you’re missed. Our environment holds massive influence over our lifestyle choices and will factor greatly into the creation and implementation of new habits.

He further defines the third place as a public place on neutral ground where people can gather and interact. In contrast to first places (home) and second places (work), third places allow people to put aside their concerns and simply enjoy the company around them.

In my experience, community is everything, especially when it comes to workouts. Having a place to rendezvous with a group of people sharing similar goals and experiences makes working out much less a chore and more about enjoying your time there. Soon enough, you’re enjoying the journey too much to worry about the destination…but you’ll get there anyway.

2. Find Your Tribe.

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Did you play sports when you were growing up? If so, how easy was it to stay accountable to team practices? Pretty easy, right? You didn’t want to let down your team or your coach, and you played a role on that team.

Working out with a partner or two isn’t a new idea, but research has shown that it’s an important one. Whether it’s setting up a buddy system to head to the gym, making contracts with others to complete workout challenges, or setting up walking, running, cycling, or even rock-climbing groups, studies have shown that this sense of accountability leads to an increase in how often you do an activity, how long you spend doing it, and how well you do it.

The takeaway? You don’t have to go it alone, nor should you. By finding your tribe, workouts become more like play dates for adults. How do you connect? Shop around different gyms. Feel out the vibe of the places you visit and scope out the regulars. How easily do your questions get answered? How happy do the members look? Do they engage with each other? Are you introduced around? Are the members doing things that you’re curious to try? If you’re looking for more than a place to plug in your earbuds and hop on a treadmill, these questions are important.

3. Hang With The “Cool Kids.”

Who are the cool kids? Anyone who is doing what you want to be doing. A recent study out of the University of Georgia reveals that people tend to mimic the behavior of those around them. In observing hundreds of volunteers, researchers found that subjects experienced a greater level of self-control when surrounded by others with strong self-control. And the opposite was also true — subjects showed poor self-control when others around them did.

The role-modeling effect was so strong that even when subjects were shown the name of someone with good or bad self-control influenced the behavior of the subjects.

Researchers concluded that self-control — or lack of it — is contagious. The takeaway? Forging friendships with like-minded people who show a strong commitment to achieving personal fitness will increase your own likelihood of being consistent with your chosen activity, and thus succeeding in your goals. The extra-good news? By modeling good fitness behavior, you then become the influencer, and by enjoying the process, you’ll inevitably encourage others to do the same.

Fitness as a healthy contagion? That’s the best news I’ve heard all year.

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  1. Lisa

    January 21, 2015 at 6:58 pm

    Great post! Loved it! Very entertaining and great ideas for anyone struggling with motivation:)

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  2. Stephanie

    January 22, 2015 at 12:02 am

    great ideas for anyone who is struggling to stay on track. I love “Find Your Tribe”. It is th advice I often give others too! Great post!

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  3. Brian

    February 18, 2015 at 9:57 am

    The hardest part is settling into a fitness routine– once you get that far, you’re golden. Great advice on keeping your surroundings positive and fostering a sense of encouragement.

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  4. Brody

    June 5, 2015 at 10:36 am

    My thoughts exactly! In order for you to get motivated to get going with the very hard training, you have to decide that you love the place or gym and always deal with the group of people that share the same goals as you. In that way, working out would be a social activity as well. And of course a few friends will never get the training go boring. Thanks for sharing!

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  5. Amanda

    June 12, 2015 at 3:07 am

    Always look for a good company– whether its in sports, or in a gym. They will help you stick to the goal and be accountable. Besides, those people you are with in the gym basically have the same goal as you, so make sure to find your place to help you keep motivated and get that fabulous body your aiming for.

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  6. Rachelle Reeves

    July 16, 2015 at 8:29 am

    This is a great article! I’ve always made a habit of going to the gym, but because I never go with anyone, it’s easy to skip. I need to find a partner or a group of people to go with so that I will be more motivated to go. Hopefully this will help me stay more motivated!

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  7. Natalie Darcy

    September 8, 2015 at 8:31 pm

    It is interesting to me that you talked about finding a gym that feels like your third place. I have never thought about it like this, but I think that is what has been missing from the gyms that I check out. Now that I know what I’m looking for, I’m sure I will have an easier time finding the right one for me. Thank you for such a detailed article about sticking to your workout plan!

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  8. Ginger Flore

    May 9, 2016 at 6:39 am

    nice article! it is very helpful to me.now i decide to join gym.

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  9. Pearl Moore

    June 10, 2016 at 5:16 am

    Maintaining a busy schedule and making sure that everyone has been taken care of can make it difficult to remember to take care of yourself.

    Reply

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